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January is an exciting month in my family. I look forward to bowl games, NFL playoffs, and the Superbowl. My children look forward to American Idol. They actually prefer the audition shows to the actual competition, and I will confess to having a bit of sometimes unkind fun laughing at the audacity of people who have somehow convinced themselves that they are God's gift to singing. I find myself wondering how they got to this point, imagining they have probably always been told by family and friends how great they are, and always come back to the same question:
Where is the line between someone following their dreams and simply deluding her/himself? Is there a line at all? Imagine you are the parent of a child whose dream is to be a singer, but by age twenty or so (if not earlier), it has become apparent that your child will be, at best, a very nice complementary singer in a church choir. What do you tell that child? There are a myriad of possible answers:
"Don't let anyone tell you you can't do it! Keep on reaching for your dream!"
"Perhaps it's time to make singing a hobby, but not a life path."
"Those who can't, teach!"
"It's just not meant to be."
And many others.
I've sometimes felt this way about "wannabe" authors. Some people have a great vocabulary and can craft a lovely sentence, but can't create a memorable character or craft an entertaining plot. Others might have great ideas, but can't put them to paper in a coherent manner. I always give the same advice:
Join a writing workshop or critique group.
Read! (And always reflect on what you are reading and have read.)
Write!
I believe everyone who truly desires to improve can do so. Without question, one can improve her or his technical skill. I wonder, though, if anyone can truly learn to be a storyteller? One can learn the "tricks of the trade" as it were, but is there an innate ability to tell a story, or craft a character? Are some people gifted with that ability in the same way that some are gifted with a great singing voice? I'd love to hear the thoughts of others on the subject.
Oh, and Ryan Seacrest trying to high-five the visually-impaired guy was hilarious.
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